I Stopped Memorizing English, This Is What Happened
I Stopped Memorizing English, This Is What Happened
Core Principle
Fluency is physical, not just mental
Speaking is a motor skill. Knowing grammar and vocabulary is not enough; fluency comes from training the muscles of your mouth (tongue, lips, voice) through repeated speaking.
Key reminder: Fluency is not in the head. Fluency is on the tongue.
Practical Daily Practices (Actionable)
1. Shadowing (Daily, short)
What to do:
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Choose a short native audio clip. Play just a few seconds. Listen carefully.
- Play it again and this time repeat immediately.
Copy rhythm, intonation and speed.
Do not translate. Do not overthink. Your goal is imitation, not perfection. If you do this daily, you will feel your mouth becoming flexible, just like an athlete stretching their muscles. -
Clarification:
Do not translate or pause to think. This is imitation training, like physical exercise for speech muscles.
2. Repetition of Core Sentences
What to do:
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Pick 5 useful everyday sentences.
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Say each sentence many times: slowly, clearly, with energy.
Clarification:
The goal is automaticity. After weeks, these sentences should come out without thinking.
3. Record & Review (1 minute)
What to do:
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Record yourself speaking for one minute daily.
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Listen and notice pronunciation, speed, clarity.
Clarification:
This builds awareness and confidence. Discomfort at first is normal and temporary.
At first, you may feel shy. That's normal. But trust me, this is one of the fastest ways to improve.
That's good because now you can correct yourself. Record again. Just one minute every day.
4. Think Aloud During Daily Actions
What to do:
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Describe what you’re doing in real time (cooking, walking, working).
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Example: “I’m cutting vegetables. Now I’m boiling water.”
Clarification:
This connects English directly to action and reduces translation in your head.
5. Conversation Loops
What to do:
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Take one simple question.
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Answer it in multiple different ways.
For example, what do you do on weekends?
On weekends, I relax at home and read books.
Sometimes I hang out with my friends and go shopping.
I love taking long walks in the park.
Confidence is something you build. Here is the truth. Your brain may still think in your native language, but your mouth is learning a new rhythm. So when you speak, accept small mistakes.
Don't fight them. Don't stop in the middle of a sentence. Keep talking.
Because confidence is not perfection.
Confidence is the courage to continue.
Every mistake is proof that you are training your mouth.
Clarification:
This exercise gives your mouth flexibility. So the next time someone asks you a question, your brain will not freeze.
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... fluency is not in the head. Fluency is on the tongue.
So let's bring everything together. When you study only grammar and vocabulary, you train your mind. That helps, but it is not enough. Real fluency comes when you train your mouth, not your mind.
Every single day, give your mouth the workout it needs. Shadow native speakers. Repeat powerful daily sentences. Record and review yourself.
Think aloud. Create conversation loops.
These small habits build muscle memory.
And muscle memory creates natural fluency.
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How to shadow (The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel)
3️⃣ How to shadow Maisel safely at your level
Use three layers, not one:
Layer 1 — “Silent shadowing”
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Play the scene
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Move your lips
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Focus only on rhythm and stress
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No speaking yet
Layer 2 — “Chunk shadowing”
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1 sentence → pause → repeat
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Copy melody, not speed
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Accept 70–80% accuracy
Layer 3 — “Selective shadowing”
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Shadow only one character
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Skip lines that are too fast
👉 This way, speed becomes training, not an obstacle.
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6️⃣ A reassuring truth
If you feel:
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“This is too fast”
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“I miss words”
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“I can’t repeat everything”
👉 That means you are exactly at the right level.
Shadowing is not about catching every word.
It’s about training your mouth to move like English.
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Based on YouTube:
🧠 CORE PRINCIPLE
If you’re not fluent, it’s not you — it’s your system.
Most learners fail because they rely on recognition (understanding) instead of recall (using).
1. BUILD A SYSTEM (NOT MOTIVATION)
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Expect motivation to drop after weeks or months — that’s normal.
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Design a repeatable system that works even when motivation is low.
Clarification: Systems survive “bad days”; motivation doesn’t.
2. ACQUISITION: CONSUME THE RIGHT INPUT
Use input that is:
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Interesting – personally relevant topics only
If it’s boring, you won’t stick with it. -
Comprehensible – you understand most of it
Ideal range: ~70–80% known words. -
Rich – contains some new vocabulary (but not too much)
~20–30% unknown is productive; 40–50% is overwhelming.
Practical actions:
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Create custom dialogues or short podcasts about your life (AI makes this easy).
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Prefer short content (2–5 minutes) over long episodes.
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Use audio + text together whenever possible
9. SPEAK DAILY (EVEN 5–10 MINUTES)
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Daily activation beats weekly long sessions.
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Consistency > intensity.
5 minutes every day for 3 months > 2 hours once a week.
10. USE AI AS A FEEDBACK ENGINE
AI can:
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Correct your speech
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Suggest better phrasing
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Provide missing words instantly
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Simulate conversations safely
11. ADD STRUCTURE TO YOUR YEAR
Annual planning works:
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Review what worked last year
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Visualize yourself speaking fluently
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Set daily habits, not vague goals
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Adjust time, not ambition
12. AVOID “INPUT OBESITY”
Warning signs:
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Endless watching/listening
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Little or no speaking
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“I’ll speak later” mindset
Fix:
Pair every input habit with an output habit.
🔑 SUMMARY IN ONE LINE
Fluency comes from a system that combines meaningful input, smart repetition, and daily activation — not from studying harder.
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About Reading
🧠 CORE PROBLEM
Understanding while reading ≠ being able to speak.
Reading builds recognition; speaking requires activation.
1. READING HAS TWO SEPARATE FUNCTIONS
When you read, two different skills are happening:
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Language acquisition – how native speakers combine words
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Idea absorption – understanding concepts and knowledge
🔑 Most learners focus only on #2 and ignore #1.
2. STEP 1 — COMPARE SENTENCES TO ACTIVATE VOCABULARY
What to do:
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When a sentence expresses an idea well:
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Pause.
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Ask: “How would I say this myself?”
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Say or think your version.
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Compare it with the author’s sentence.
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Why it works:
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Language learning = connecting old knowledge to new input.
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Comparison reveals how natives think, not just what they say.
🔍 Specific words encode specific thoughts.
3. PASSIVE RECOGNITION ≠ ACTIVE ACCESS
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You may recognize words like directionless while reading.
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But if you’ve never used them, they won’t appear in speech.
Fix:
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Force recall through comparison.
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Your brain starts storing words as usable options, not decorations.
4. STEP 2 — SUMMARIZE EACH CHAPTER OUT LOUD
What to do:
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After finishing a chapter:
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Close the book.
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Summarize it out loud in English.
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Tools (optional):
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Phone recording
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Voice-to-text apps
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Any speech recorder
Why it matters:
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This turns input → output immediately.
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Speaking exposes gaps that silent reading hides.
🧠 Production is the bridge between knowing and using.
5. ACTIVE READING VS PASSIVE READING
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Passive reading: understand silently
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Active reading: produce language from what you read
Rule:
If you don’t speak or write after reading, fluency won’t improve.
🔑 ONE-SENTENCE SUMMARY
Fluent readers become fluent speakers only when they actively compare, summarize, and reuse what they read.
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Let me give you a clear, honest answer based on what we know works best for someone at your level and with 10 minutes a day.
Short verdict (before details)
If you only have 10 minutes and can read 1–2 short paragraphs, then:
The best activity is NOT “reading more” and NOT “studying the text deeply”.
The best activity is: micro-activation from reading.
Reading is useful only if it directly feeds speaking.
Why the video is only partly right
The video isn’t wrong, but it assumes you have time and energy for:
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stopping often
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summarizing chapters
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taking notes
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comparing sentences repeatedly
That’s not realistic for a 10-minute window.
At your level (high B2 → C1 trajectory), the real problem is activation, not understanding.
The BEST 10-minute activity (high return, low effort)
🟢 10-Minute “Read → Say → Upgrade” Cycle
This gives you maximum speaking benefit per minute.
⏱️ Minute 0–3 — Read ONE short paragraph
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5–8 sentences max
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Don’t stop for vocabulary
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Just understand the meaning
📌 Rule:
If you need a dictionary to understand the paragraph → it’s too hard.
⏱️ Minute 3–6 — Say it YOUR way (out loud)
Close the text and say one or two sentences answering:
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“What is this paragraph about?”
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“What is the main idea?”
Out loud. Not in your head.
Example:
“It explains why people forget words even if they read a lot.”
🧠 This is the most important part.
⏱️ Minute 6–8 — Upgrade ONE sentence
Reopen the text and do only ONE thing:
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Find one sentence that sounds better than yours
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Or one phrase you wish you could use
Then say your sentence again, but improved:
Before:
“People forget words easily.”
After:
“Words often remain passive unless we actively use them.”
📌 Only ONE upgrade. Not more.
⏱️ Minute 8–10 — Lock it in
Do one of these (choose what feels easiest that day):
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Say the improved sentence again
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Record it on your phone
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Write it once from memory
Then stop.
Why THIS works (and most reading advice doesn’t)
This method:
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avoids note-taking overload
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avoids vocabulary lists
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forces recall, not recognition
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trains thinking in English
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builds speaking confidence in tiny doses
You’re not “studying English” —
you’re rehearsing speech.
What NOT to do in 10 minutes ❌
With limited time, avoid:
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highlighting many words
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writing long summaries
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checking dictionaries repeatedly
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“deep” analysis
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reading multiple paragraphs
Those are luxury activities for longer sessions.
What to read (very important)
For 10-minute sessions, choose:
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opinion articles
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short essays
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non-fiction paragraphs
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reflective writing
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interviews
Avoid:
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novels (too slow payoff)
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dense academic texts
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news with heavy proper nouns
One sentence rule to remember
If reading doesn’t end with you speaking, it won’t improve your fluency.
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How to turn this into C1-level speaking material?
(capitalize How)
Now to the substance.
The core idea (very important)
C1 speaking is not about harder topics.
It’s about how you reformulate, frame, and expand simple ideas.
So your task is not:
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to read more
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to learn rarer vocabulary
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to sound “academic”
Your task is:
to turn one simple idea into a layered, structured, precise spoken response.
The C1 transformation framework (usable in 10 minutes)
You already have this cycle:
Read → Say → Upgrade
To reach C1, we add structure and stance.
Step 1: Extract ONE idea (same as before)
From 1 short paragraph, identify one idea only.
Example idea:
People understand English when reading but can’t use it when speaking.
That’s B2 content. Perfect.
Step 2: Produce a B2 baseline (don’t skip this)
Say it simply, in 1–2 sentences.
B2 version (baseline):
“Many learners understand English texts, but when they try to speak, the words don’t come out.”
This is your raw material.
Step 3: Apply the C1 Upgrade Grid
Now you upgrade, not by adding words randomly, but by adding functions.
At C1, speakers typically do at least 3 of these:
🔹 1. Precision (replace vague language)
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many → a large number of
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words don’t come out → fail to access vocabulary
🔹 2. Cause–effect logic
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explain why something happens
🔹 3. Framing / stance
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“what this shows is…”
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“the real issue is…”
🔹 4. Contrast or clarification
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“not X, but Y”
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“it’s less about…, and more about…”
You do not need all four every time.
Step 4: Build a C1 response (3–4 sentences max)
Example transformation
B2:
“Many learners understand English texts, but when they try to speak, the words don’t come out.”
C1 version:
“A large number of learners can understand English perfectly well when reading, yet struggle to access the same vocabulary when speaking.
This happens because reading builds passive recognition, whereas speaking requires active recall.
In other words, the problem isn’t a lack of knowledge, but the inability to activate it under real-time pressure.”
✅ This is clearly C1:
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precise vocabulary
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causal explanation
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reformulation (“in other words”)
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controlled length
Step 5: Turn it into a reusable speaking block
Now do one of these (choose one):
Option A: Memorize it (short-term)
Say it 2–3 times aloud.
Option B: Paraphrase it
Say the same idea again, differently:
“So essentially, comprehension develops faster than production…”
Option C: Personalize it (best for fluency)
Add one personal line:
“That’s exactly what I experience when I try to speak spontaneously.”
The key C1 habit (this matters more than vocabulary)
At C1, you should constantly ask yourself:
“How would I explain this idea clearly to another adult?”
Not:
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“What advanced word can I use?”
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“How can I sound impressive?”
Clarity + structure = C1.
A 10-minute C1 speaking template (save this)
You can reuse this every day:
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Read 1 paragraph (2–3 min)
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Say the idea simply (1 min)
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Upgrade using:
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precision
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cause
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contrast
(3–4 min)
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Say the final version out loud (2 min)
That’s it.
One sentence to remember
C1 speaking is B2 ideas explained like an educated adult.